Modern life is stressful, especially if you are worried about money on top of all your other problems. Financial trouble can even hold you back from making important life decisions. Like many women, you are probably struggling with a very difficult situation. Should you stay in an unhappy marriage for financial security or pursue divorce?
As parents, we all want what's best for our kids. We want them to have happy childhoods. We want them to do well in school so that they will have as many opportunities as possible to seek out a satisfying and fulfilling career. We want them to see the world, have adventures (safely), and be happy. We also want them to love and be loved. We want them to have someone who will always be there for them and for whom they will always be there in return. We really do. One thing parents don't want for their kids is divorce. That's not surprising and it's not unexpected. Kids know this about their parents. So grown up kids who find themselves contemplating or in the midst of divorce will often falter when it comes to that moment when they need to actually tell their parents that their marriage is ending.